Tuesday, February 25, 2014

DW & Deepavali

This is a long overdue post....

My dimple walla was here for Deepavali and I actually asked him if he wants to meet. He said yes for dinner but not at home. As usual dinner at 9 became supper at midnight. He called to ask if I still want to meet, I asked him back does he want to? 

Well he picked me up after midnite and we went to Pelita. I knew he wanted to tell me something....he was disturbed. It took him 3 hrs to open up...finally...it was hard to be in his position. All I could tell him then was that he was just dumb and he should live his life....people change...surroundings change....we just have to change and adapt....the past will always be there but we need to live this moment...

It was funny, after he told me his side of the story, he asked why I never asked him about his past, I just said thatI will wait till you want to tell me and today seemed to be the right day for you to do so. Friendship..it takes years to build the trust....I trusted him immediately but my dimple walla took his time to trust me back.....

Anyway, it was very weird when he suddenly asked me to remove my glass at the wee hours of the morning at Pelita, it was 3.10am. I told that I'm practically blind without them but knowing my dimple walla I did remove my glasses. He just sat there and looked into my eyes. I donno if he was looking for answers or clues or inspirations...😄

I didn't ask him if he found what he was seeking in my soul...I have a very messed up dimple walla. I wish I'm able to help him but I know him, he needs to do this on his own, no matter what anyone tells him, till he is ready he won't listen. I know coz I see me in him. 

To dimple walla, I'm always here...a friend  who can be your shoulder to lean on....

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