He came to my house...
I was suppose to meet dimple walla for dinner on Friday nite. He called me on Friday morning asking when am I free today... as usual, he did not wait for my answer and just said he will pick me up at about 8pm for dinner. Well I give up arguing with him... but just before 8pm, he messaged saying he could not make it on the nite and wanted to meet the following day at 2pm.
I replied no, can we meet at 3pm instead and he was upset about me changing the time. Seriously, dimple walla thinks he is the only person/agenda in my life!! I called him and we agreed to meet for breakfast at 9.30am and he did give me a fair warning saying that if he manage to wake up that early...
Anyway, I slept well on Friday nite contrary to my own jugdement.. I was not excited nope, am not fooling myself... I was just okay about meeting him. I was up early and gave Romeo, Juliet and Hamlet a nice long bath and cleaned up the front. I took my shower and I think I was ready for breakfast before 9.30. While waiting for him, I started doing my work and it was about 10 something that he messaged that he will be there by 11 as he just got up!
By now my tummy was making a bit more noise as I was seriously getting hungry and I had nothing in the house to eat....I just carried on with my work and finally at just before noon, he called me to say he has to cancel the appointment and hopefully we can meet next year. I said no problems but in my mind, I was scolding him and was thinking what am I going to cook now... I was about to put the phone down and he said he is actually out now and he is at Lebuh Pekaka..... right infront of my house.... and that was when I started scolding him:-)
I asked him to give me a moment to shut down my notebook when he said he wanted to come in. Now, last nite I did ask him if he wants to meet the dogs as he said he has one sitting right at his feet while we were talking, his mom's dog, but he declined the offer. Anyway, I thought he wanted to use the washroom and so I said, fine, park your car and just come in. Dimple walla is scared of the dogs...the 3 guys were not even barking at him!!
He came to the house and he saw my Krshnas and then he came to the kitchen and was checking out my kitchen and the backyard. We were sitting at the dining table when he asked if he can use the internet as he wanted to check his mails. I told him the net connection is in my bedroom and it is upstairs and asked if he was okay with that? My mind was working very fast, trying to figure out the condition of my room and I was seriously hoping to hear him to say no but he did not!!
We went up to the room and he got a schock of his life when he saw all the bears and soft toys. I only introduced him to Teddy, told him Teddy is 32 years old and he was impressed. Thank god Teddy is younger than him :-) Anyway, I set up the net connection and switched on the air cond and told him I will leave the room, he said no, stay in the room with him. We were talking while he was using the net... once he finished, he said, you really like Krshna and I told him that is an understatement!!
Dimple walla was nice, he did not say or imply anything else when we were alone in the room. We finally went for lunch, he took such a long drive and I was wondering what is wrong with this guy. Over lunch we were chatting away as usual, not so much of arguing these days but more laughter and more communication. We were talking about the Indus civilization and he has his on theory which of course only applies to him lah!
I asked him a question, whether he thinks he is superior than others and his answer did not surprise me at all... he said yes... and that made me laugh out loud. He laughed with me too and he was trying to explain why he thinks so... this is a guy full of ego and lacking greatly on humility..... this is my dimple walla and I do not expect anything less from him. He knows I can just accept him as who he is and finally I can see that he is accepting me as who I am....
We finished our lunch in 3 hours, we had a good conversation and I seriously had a good time with a friend. I know I like him alot, it is nice to have to someone to talk to and the fact that I do not meet him all the time is good too.
I am not sure when I am going to see him again... may be next year or may be sooner but whatever it is, I do wish him well. I like my dimple walla as he is and no matter how I feel about him, I just would love to be his friend and only as his friend as that is the only relationship I can afford to have with him...
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