Nc's wedding dinner....
We were all in blue and it was just wonderful. The girls came for the dinner too and they too were in blue sarees and the looked lovely.
As usual, we had fun. All that till the drive back to P's house. Nc and her husband were in the car with me and Sara and Nc's husband started saying something about me and my behavior/attitude. He was telling me that I should go towards God and I get a bit offended, I just told him my relationship with God is very personal and I like the way I am now. Then he was condemning the way I spoke in Tamil and English. He simply irritated me!
Sara was trying his best to change the topic but this guy was just too adamant to criticize me, when I reached P's house, I got hold of my bag and I just told him that I am aware that he was mocking the way I speak but this is how everyone speaks at my house. I was really hurt.
I was driving back home when I called DW to complain about this. He calmed me down and of course he made some stupid remarks as well....
I don't understand why some people think they are superior beings, what makes them think they are better off compared to others. We are all human and that's it!!!
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Thursday, June 2, 2011
Monday, February 2, 2009
Proud to be me
Something happened yesterday evening, besides taking a big step in life and signing the papers!
The lawyer took me to the commisioner of oath to sign more documents infront of the person and our luck there were no chinese guy and so we had to go to an Indian lady.
When we walked in, she asked me to take a sit and I did and I was quiet while she checked for the details. My lawyer sat in a corner, when she asked him whether I am close to him, I was not expecting that question from anyone, well, he replied no, I am his client. The she added, but you never accompany your clients...
Well, I just let it be, once I finished signing and she finished attesting the documents, she said that S's name is familiar and if she knows him, I said I am very sure she might not know who S is and the lawyer said the same too...I still just kept quiet.
Then when I stood up to leave, she shook my hands and told me to wait, she has something to say.... she asked me if I have someone else in my life...that seriously I did not see it coming, I just turned and looked at the lawyer and I asked him, what is this all about? The lady said she is just giving me advice, not to take this laying down, I should show the world that I am able to marry another person and live happily ever after..... and that made me so furious, I told her off.
I just told her that I am happy to be whoever I am...I told her, I am following my dreams and I am living my life and I don't need a man called husband next to me to make me happy. I just don't get it, I am getting a divorce therefore it means I have tried this marriage thingy and it did not work out, so now pls pray tell me, why should I be doing the same mistake so soon in my life??
I just told her, you need to meet more people like me to understand the meaning of life, to understand the meaning of friendship, to understand the meaning of privacy and to understand the meaning of minding your own business....well, I did not get to say the last two but I sure wish I could go back to her and say it all...all over again.
I did not ask for her for any advice and as P said, that lady does not know what all happened in each and everyone's life and the thing was, I did not confide in her nor ask for any suggestions!!!
Now I think Krshna did tat so that my mind would be diverted for a moment, I was so upset with the lady coz she said I am going to end up as a lonely lady that I for a moment forgot about the pain of signing the documents....
Guesss everything happens for a reason...........
The lawyer took me to the commisioner of oath to sign more documents infront of the person and our luck there were no chinese guy and so we had to go to an Indian lady.
When we walked in, she asked me to take a sit and I did and I was quiet while she checked for the details. My lawyer sat in a corner, when she asked him whether I am close to him, I was not expecting that question from anyone, well, he replied no, I am his client. The she added, but you never accompany your clients...
Well, I just let it be, once I finished signing and she finished attesting the documents, she said that S's name is familiar and if she knows him, I said I am very sure she might not know who S is and the lawyer said the same too...I still just kept quiet.
Then when I stood up to leave, she shook my hands and told me to wait, she has something to say.... she asked me if I have someone else in my life...that seriously I did not see it coming, I just turned and looked at the lawyer and I asked him, what is this all about? The lady said she is just giving me advice, not to take this laying down, I should show the world that I am able to marry another person and live happily ever after..... and that made me so furious, I told her off.
I just told her that I am happy to be whoever I am...I told her, I am following my dreams and I am living my life and I don't need a man called husband next to me to make me happy. I just don't get it, I am getting a divorce therefore it means I have tried this marriage thingy and it did not work out, so now pls pray tell me, why should I be doing the same mistake so soon in my life??
I just told her, you need to meet more people like me to understand the meaning of life, to understand the meaning of friendship, to understand the meaning of privacy and to understand the meaning of minding your own business....well, I did not get to say the last two but I sure wish I could go back to her and say it all...all over again.
I did not ask for her for any advice and as P said, that lady does not know what all happened in each and everyone's life and the thing was, I did not confide in her nor ask for any suggestions!!!
Now I think Krshna did tat so that my mind would be diverted for a moment, I was so upset with the lady coz she said I am going to end up as a lonely lady that I for a moment forgot about the pain of signing the documents....
Guesss everything happens for a reason...........
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Poem
I read this in a blog and I tot it was too nice not to be included here......
Niem”ller spoke out, and for his trouble was incarcerated in the Sachsenhausen and Dachau concentration camps from 1937 to 1945, and very nearly executed. While incarcerated, Niem”ller wrote a poem:
First they came for the Jews
and I did not speak out because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for the Communists
and I did not speak out because I was not a Communist.
Then they came for the trade unionists
and I did not speak out because I was not a trade unionist.
Then they came for me and there was no one left to speak out for me.
Niem”ller spoke out, and for his trouble was incarcerated in the Sachsenhausen and Dachau concentration camps from 1937 to 1945, and very nearly executed. While incarcerated, Niem”ller wrote a poem:
First they came for the Jews
and I did not speak out because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for the Communists
and I did not speak out because I was not a Communist.
Then they came for the trade unionists
and I did not speak out because I was not a trade unionist.
Then they came for me and there was no one left to speak out for me.
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